All relations start from something important. They start from a deep feeling. Usually, first it is liking, and later it develops into true and deep love. However, is there any difference between liking and loving? How can you define if you are already in love or you just like a person you are spending time with, and trying to build romantic relations may lead to a failure?
If you have already fallen in love, you begin to accept this person completely, even with all his or her flaws. And even more, if you are head over hills, you may even not notice that there is something not perfect in your partner. This is a true and the first sign of moving from liking to loving.
It is hard for you to spend time alone. As soon as you are apart, you start to think about your lady and wish to be with her again. You look for all possible ways of communication with her and try to reach her again. This is passionate love, and it can’t let you go.
Despite the fact that people are rather selfish creatures, your main goal turns to your lady. She becomes so important for you that you place her on the first place, above you. You worry about her and try to help in all possible ways. You are ready to sacrifice everything you have to make her happy. This is the sign of love, not common liking.
Another showing of love is your sudden wish to be with this lady through all you life. You may start thinking about such things as marriage, mutual home and even children. Only those who are in love bother about such questions, and this means that this lady became truly important for you.
You may notice that you begin to change. You subconsciously start to get rid of some bad habits or you try to behave the other way and make things that are not typical for you, but in good sense. This is love that makes you change and reaching for becoming better for someone you love.
A person in love can’t help constantly thinking about his object of passion. You may catch yourself thinking over and over again your last communication and planning your next meeting, and such thoughts make you happy, because you think about someone who is dear for you.
You not only place this person on the first place for yourself but also do everything possible to please her. This also includes deep respect. You care about her decisions and interests and you don’t press on her. You also always try to be soft to her and not to argue as this may hurt her feelings and thus yours too.
The final sign of loving a person is that there is something very special and unexplainable that appears in your heart. This is it – love that not a single poet managed to completely explain and not a single scientist managed to define. This feeling will help you to live together happily and make each other complete for your whole life.