We live in the 21 century and got used to cook with the program in your cooking machine, you start by the simple click in your cell-phone. We wash our clothes deepens on the program, we choose on the panel of washing machine. We are so “machinized”, that it is easier for us to go online for a date then to invite a woman for a real meeting. It is a big deal to choose and buy flowers for her and we simply google what are the most popular color and type of bouquets.

Is it leading us to the moment, we would reproduce only online! What if all our useful gadgets disappear? Will we stop dating? Talking?
And children.. look at them – at the age of 2 they know cell phone functions better then we do at our 40th… It is not easy to be a parent if you can not teach your children the most important and simple things. How to drive the car, how to date a girl/boy. What is good and bad… To teach what is good, you must be good yourself. And with years everything is so mixed up in our crazy world. So easy to get lost among many options and opinions. So difficult to get back to basic things, written in the history of civilizations, as we do not live the same way like 500 years ago. But till today some people do not loose the connection with their human nature.
There is an ancient tribe in South Africa, where people have a very strange tradition:
if one of the tribe acts wrong and nasty, all the people of the tribe takes that guilty and put him or her to the central point of the village, they live. During next two days each member of the tribe enumerates all good actions, the blamed one did ever. The tribe considers that every human comes to this world as a good one. Each of us wishes only safty and love, peace and happiness. But sometimes, when you are running these things to catch them up, you lost your way and make mistakes.
The tribe sees these mistakes as a cry for help.
They get together to let that person get up, to reestablish the connection with his or her natural self, which was suddenly and temporary broken. The tribe wants to remind who he or she really is, and they are doing it until the blamed one reestablish his connection with his truth: I AM GOOD! – Shikoba Nabajyotisaikia
NABAJYOTISAIKIA – it’s a compliment, which is used in South Africa and meaning: “I respect you, I appreciate you. You mean a lot to me.” In response, people say SHIKOBA, which means: “I exist for you.”
Looking for a woman – a wife, a mother of your children – make sure you can say her NABAJYOTISAIKIA . And choose the one, who would say SHIKOBA!